Dildos are made of a variety of materials and shaped like an erect human penis. But how do you pick a good dildo, as there are so many to choose from? Keep reading as we talk about dildos and provide a detailed guide on what you should consider when choosing a dildo.
Choosing a Dildo has become really easy
There are hundreds of dildo types, styles, and types; you can easily get overwhelmed looking for the right one. So before we begin offering you more details on dildos, here we give you some of the key things you will want to consider when choosing a dildo:
Form: The number one factor to consider is what shape the dildo is—phallic or realistic, non-phallic or non-realistic, or fantasy. You should go with the model you are most comfortable with—a straight dildo, a curved one or something else.
Dimension: When you’re buying a sex toy, size is very important. Dildo sizes vary, and dildos can be anywhere from 6 inches in length/1 inch wide (which is a good place to start) all the way up to 12 inches long/2.5 inches wide (porn even has practice and also extra-large dildos). And the size of the dildo that you get will determine whether you can use it for anal or vaginal penetration.
Material The most important thing with dildo material is that it is safe for the body. The next concern is the flexibility of the material; the more rigid models are better for targeting the G- or P-spot. At the same time, a model that is more flexible is easier to work with. The potential functionality of the dildo is greatly affected by the material as well, although additional information on the materials of the dildo is offered at the bottom.
Characteristics However, features are the last things to consider in choosing the dildo. Of course, we mean things like a suction cup base, a two-sphere detail for the testes, harness compatibility, its double-endedness, and/or its vibration.
Common dildo types you are likely to encounter
Now let’s look at the models of dildos that you find on the market today. The set is seductive and so versatile; there’s a dildo for whatever you’re up to. Please note that our shop has an excellent collection of dildos, shaped in a way to meet Your needs:
The dildos in the ass are also made especially for anal penetration and come out of a base with somewhat more volume to make their introduction into the body easier, and their appearance is less affected. Anal dildos are open to anyone who would like to explore the deeper pleasures of anal sex. I invite you to take a look at our buyer’s guide for anal dildos.
Double-sided dildos, when used with a harness, may work well for many men who want to experience double penetration. They have one side that is larger, designed for vaginal penetration, and one side that is thinner for anal penetration. We actually recommend that you take a look at our buyer’s guide to double dildos.
All glass dildos are unique in their own way, and the hardness lends itself to unique sensations. They are also great for temperature play and are some of the easiest to sanitise. We recommend our buyer’s guide for glass dildos.
These squirting dildos are perfect in every way and so much like a real penis with cum lubricant to simulate a real masculine orgasm. They are slimy, gross, and not hot at all, at least not to see two chicks swap non-sweet kisses. We do recommend that you check out our consumer guide for the squirting dildos.
Big dildos are also long but extremely thick, which can be a whopping 9 inches and above. They are not for everyone, as they need to be worked into the size and have a heavy throw. Here’s our male vibrator buyer’s guide and the full rundown of dildos in our men’s pleasure guide.
Inflatable dildos—these dildos are usually pumped up to a size that gives a pleasant stretch and can then be used anally or vaginally. We also recommend reading our inflatable dildo buyer’s guide.
Realistic Real-Feel Dildos The standard dildo, made to look as similar as possible to an erect dick and balls. For a true-to-life series of dildos that come in all sorts of materials, take a look at our consumers’ guide.
Silicone dildos are some of the most realistic non-natural sex toys for women to purchase, and they can be moulded into various shapes that a human simply “can’t-do”. These are easy to clean, long-lasting, and body-safe. We also recommend checking out our silicone dildo buyers’ guide.
Mini dildos are for newbies, but some may argue they are for those who like their sex toys to be as dainty as they are. Be sure to check out our consumer guide to little dildos.
G-Spot dildos – these dildos have a curved shaft enabling easy use and reach of the G-spot without much hassle to encourage a deep penetration and thus stimulation. Check out our buyer’s guide for the G-spot tool.
Strapless dildos, also known as double-enders or two-way dildos, provide both anal and vaginal stimulation to the users. The vaginal bulb enters the vagina, and the probe inserts into the other partner, male or female. We recommend you check out our consumer’s guide to strapped dildos.
How To Use A Suction Cup Dildo Quality dildo suction cups suction cup dildos feature a suction cup on the end of the dildo that allows you to stick them on most smooth surfaces so you can use them without needing to use your hand. Please see our buyer’s guide for sucker dongs.
Pegging dildos are slimmer than average dildos, and they also have a flared base that is compatible with most harnesses. We also recommend checking out our consumer guide on pegging dildos.
Vibrating Dildos—These are dildos that might look like real penises; however, they can vibrate, so that gives you the added bonus of vibrations. Our vibrating dildo buyer’s guide has more information on the different control types and which models they can be used with.
Thrusting Dildos – the thrusting dildo also allows you to mimic intercourse, but the thrusting dildo tends to give you more play options. We recommend checking our buyer’s guide about thrusting dildos.
Materials and Size of the Dildo
Dildos: These days, dildos are available in various materials and styles, as we mentioned before. We already talked about the models, but now let’s talk about the most common dildo materials and the major benefits of each:
Some of the most secure dildo materials are glass—my favourite is called borosilicate, which is guaranteed never to shatter and is great for temperature play, as it can hold heat or cold very well. It is safe with all lubricants and can be moulded into various shapes and forms. Glass is a feeling material to clean, and your glass dildo could be laundered in a dishwasher-looking machine or in hot water and soap. The only downside is that there are pretty much no glass dildos that vibrate.
Commonly used metal in dildo construction is stainless steel or aluminium, with stainless steel being the most common. The smooth and weighty steel is perfect for massaging and stroking as well as hitting the target spot. They are fine to use with any kind of lube, too. The metal dildos can be cleaned and disinfected thoroughly; this makes them perfect for temperature play.
Silicone is non-porous and will last a lifetime with the proper care. The dildos are smooth and strong and flexible, with a double layer for a realistic enough feeling, and they are nice and so comfortable. They also have a motorised vibrator built in because silicone can transfer vibrations more readily. Silicone dildos can be cleaned and even sterilised easily, but they play with water-based lubes only. You really should keep your silicone dildo in a safe place, away from other substances.
TPE is a synthetic material that is often used to make dildos. The TPE dildo is one of the most realistic-feeling dildos on the market, yet it is porous and can only be used with water-based lube. The most realistic material is TPE, but those dildos can be hard to clean — which is why we always recommend for anything to do with sex play that’s NOT with a long-term partner (where STD risk is, obviously, way lower) to always put a condom over it. PVC/jelly—This is the most commonly used type of artificial material used for sex accessories and is cheap. They do have a chemical smell, and while they might seem smooth and pliable and feel real to the touch, they are also porous and hard to clean. We recommend that these toys be used with a condom.
Cleaning a Dildo
We touched on how to clean each dildo material. However, do keep in mind the fact that it’s important (for the sake of keeping your sex toy clean) to sanitise your dildo. Please note that not all types of material are appropriate for your specific project. Because of this, you have to be careful with the way you clean your sex toys. We suggest that you clean your dildo with mild soap and warm water or toy cleaner; however, to maintain its after-sex appeal, dust it with corn flour.
Whether made from glass, metal, or sturdy silicone, your toys can be effectively sterilised by dousing them in boiling water. The implication of using a product with PVC and TPE toys is that they are porous and can not be sterilised. The same object cannot be employed in the rectum and the vagina. You must, however, be aware that with a non-porous toy you can clean it between uses if you like, but if you are playing with a porous toy, you must use a condom, and you cannot share this between orifices.
Also make sure that you keep your dildo in a safe place and not exposed where sunlight, humidity and heat have access to it. If you invest in a suitable sex toy storage bag—or choice of container – then you can keep your dildos par excellence for a long, long time.
We hope you enjoyed searching for and using your new dildo and that the dildo buying guide we put together helps you out! We also highly recommend you take a look at our other guides about how to use and choose a range of sex toys and our activities pages, which are absolutely packed with ideas. Find the best selection of sex toys, including dildos, vibrators, male sex toys, sexy lingerie, anal toys, BDSM gear, sex accessories, and more, in our sex toy store.
Common Questions
If your girlfriend is using a dildo?
We can’t pick the single best dildo because it’s a matter of personal taste. Depending on personal preference, some may like the hardness of a glass device, and others the softness of silicone. For that reason, we suggest you consider your own tastes and what your dildo is to be used for before buying one. We’ve covered all types of dildos and created thorough guides, which we are sure will get you on the path to finding the perfect dildo depending on your needs if you follow our advice and shop intelligently.
How to clean dildos correctly?
How to Clean a Dildo The way in which you clean your dildo depends on what it is made from. For metal, glass, or silicone, you can wash it with soap and water or sterilise it with boiling water. Because you’ll need to be more careful when cleaning your TPE or PVC dildos. You need to wash them in soap and water and sanitise them using a sex toy cleaner.
What Kind Of Lube Should I Use With My Dildo?
The best lube is water-based, which is safe with all dildo materials and all types of skin. A glass or metal dildo will also work well with an oil-based or silicone-based lube, for instance, and a silicone, TPE, or PVC dildo can only be used with water-based lubricant.